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Life
Is an Inside Job:
Every change, every transformation, every
action in your entire existence has started
and will continue to start within
you. You must fill your own cup
before you have the capacity to assist anyone
else. You can't get poor enough to
make anyone else wealthy. You
can't get sick enough to make anyone else
healthy. You can't get dumb enough
to make anyone else
smart. You can't get
numb enough to make anyone else
wakeup.
Who
Comes First? In
order to be successful at any aspect of your
life, you must take care of yourself first. You
must be first in your world.
That's just the nature of reality.
That's the law. That's how this
law of the universe works. You can deny
it. You can fight
it. You can ignore
it. But you can't change
it.
You've
Got is Bass Ackwards:
You're probably heard the saying that putting
yourself first is not only greedy and selfish,
it's completely counter to everything you've
been taught for your entire life.
You are absolutely right that it is indeed
what you've been taught. BUT. .
. Is it the
truth? NO! It is
neither greedy nor selfish. It's
common sense.
When you examine the
evidence, you'll find that the belief, "others
must come first," originated in a
vastly different time, place and context from
where we are today. The Church
leaders who
started this belief were coming from fear and
were focused on self-survival in an extremely
difficult world. For people
who engaged it arson, murder and torture, a
little thing like "lying to the
people" was, for them, simply
another tool of self survival.
They saw a way to get others to take care of
them. (But don't believe,
this, study the history of the early Christian
church leaders.) And they had no
idea of How the Universe
Functions.`
That's not to make them wrong or
bad. It's simply to point out that
many of human beliefs and behaviors have not kept pace with our
expanding knowledge of the nature of the
universe and how it functions.
This is just one
example among many where we have physical
things and/or our beliefs
backwards. If humanity is to
survive, we're going to have to take a long,
hard look at our present behavior and the
underlying beliefs the dictate and control our
behavior.
Why?
Because what we presently believe to be
"The Truth" is mostly
false. Life is not what
you've been led to believe it is by those who claim to
know. You,
I, and everybody else have been (and still are) making critical,
irreversible, life-altering decisions based upon false,
incomplete,
and/or intentionally-deceptive
information!
Think about the above statement for a moment.
Think about the
profound implications of that statement. How does
it make you feel?
Here's an example of
something that is almost certainly true, but is
ignored and put down by millions of people who have
never examined the evidence on this topic:
"We are eternal spiritual beings having a
physical experience."
Reincarnation:
You might also note that all of our
experiences are our own creations. We
are not the victims. Collectively,
we are reaping the consequences of our own
past lives here on Earth. You can
deny this and you might be right, but that's
where the overwhelming, circumstantial
evidence (and much of the physical
evidence) is pointing. We've
lived on Earth before. We are living
here now, and most of us (if we don't destroy
the planet) will come back and live here
again.
The Universal Laws:
The laws of the universe also tell us that
what we experience in the physical world is a mirror of that
which we already are in our internal selves,
but that's another
story for another time.'
Back
to "Who Comes First?"
Here's love expressed in spiritual
language: "Love
Yourself, love Your Neighbor, and love "God"
because all three
are one and the same
thing." Note that in the order of loving, you come
first. That's because if you do
not love yourself, you do not know what love
is. You don't know what love feel
like. You may have some thought and
beliefs about love, but until you experience
loving yourself, you have an incomplete
perspective of love. And
because your external world is a mirror of
your internal world, love in your external
world will be absent until love is present in
your internal world.
What
Is Love? When
one recognizes the oneness of everything, a
profound sense of calm and peacefulness fills
one's being with joy. One
feels the joy of being. It's
kind of like love, but a love that one doesn't
experience in the physical world without also
being in the formless world. In
the physical world of duality, there is the
lover and the beloved. There is a separateness
between lover and the beloved.
In the world of oneness, love is
everything combined. Lover and the
beloved are one and the same
"thing." Only in the
formless world there are no
"things." Everything is energy
and consciousness.
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